Mother’s Day unfairly excludes people like me. I mean I can send cards and gifts to my mother and grandmothers, but I am not on the receiving end of the celebration, and I find that sad.
Three years. Three years since I stopped taking birth control. And three years that I have not had a baby. In this time lots of people I know have had babies, and some are “cooking” their second by now.
I know I am not alone in this, I have friends that also have problems with getting pregnant, and I have been a member of online communities with a HUGE membership of ladies that are willing to go through so much pain and hurt to get their hearts desire. People who have been trying for 10 years or more, or have invested every last penny into trying to make the dream become a reality.
In a perfect world crackwhores and people who don’t want kids wouldn’t get them, and those of us who are aching for kids would get them upon request. Its not a perfect world, so that doesn’t happen.
Just my little rant of the day(s).